This email/video course reveals the three hidden blind spots quietly weakening your relationship — and gives you the foundation to finally fix them.
The Myth We Were Told in Singapore and Asia
We grow up being told that relationships are a matter of luck. If you're lucky, you get a good partner. If you're unlucky, you get problems.
So when things get hard, we blame fate, or each other.
But luck has nothing to do with it.
Strong relationships are built with the right skills and foundation. The thing is we were not taught how.
This course changes that.
What You'll Discover Over 7 Days
Three blind spots that silently weaken every relationship — and what to do about each one.
Day 1-2: Blind Spot #1
Many of us know what we want in a relationship, but not how to get there.
This gap causes disappointments, frustration, and impossible expectations.
This lesson will show you what realistic, healthy expectations actually look like in practice.
Day 3-4: Blind Spot #2
We think relationship skills — like communication, boundaries, conflict resolution — should come naturally.
But they don't. They're learnt, just like any other skill.
We'll explain what these skills actually are and how to start building them today.
Day 5-6: Blind Spot #3
We carry black-and-white beliefs inherited from childhood and social media. For example: "My partner should just know what I need."
These simplistic beliefs are boxes that keep us stuck.
This lesson will help you develop mature beliefs that actually serve you.
Day 7: The Road Ahead
How to take everything you've learnt and turn it into lasting change.
What You'll Get Each Day
✓ A 3-minute email introducing the day's concept (sent at 7am Singapore time)
✓ A 3-7 minute video from Kester and Kavitha guiding you through the lesson
✓ One simple practice you can do immediately to fix the blind spots
Total time commitment: Less than 10 minutes per day.
This Is For You If:
- You want to build a strong foundation, not just fix problems.
- You keep hitting the same rough patches and want to understand why.
- You're ready to learn the skills you were never taught.
- You want lasting change, not just tips.
What Others Are Saying:

— MJ, Hong Kong
"I came into this 7-Day Challenge thinking I already had the answers. Or that I could find them on Google. What I didn't realise was that I was operating on assumptions, and those assumptions were quietly getting in the way.
The biggest shift for me after doing this Challenge was understanding that connecting with my children's generation isn't something that just happens. It requires intention. It requires showing up, reflecting honestly, and being willing to ask for feedback, even when that feels uncomfortable for someone like me who is used to being the one with the answers.
This Challenge gave me a framework to approach those relationships differently. Not with less confidence, but with more curiosity."
— Boomer Parent, Singapore
"It has been a month since we worked with Kavitha and Kester, and my partner and I have still been able to enjoy quality conversations, even when they start to get heated. Kavitha and Kester equipped us with tools that stay with you for years to come."
— Pat, Singapore
"We were frustrated that we kept coming back to the same problems over and over again, even after spending a lot of money on other therapy. Kester and Kavitha gave us tools to communicate from a space of awareness and love. We now have more confidence that we can better support each other, and we are excited to see each other's growth."
— Zxane & Vera, Singapore
"Before working with Kavitha and Kester, we were struggling to connect as a couple and that impacted many facets of our life together. We now have a renewed connection. We communicate less combatively, have calmer arguments where we seek to understand instead of fighting, and are able to share deeper feelings and aspirations with each other."
— A & S, Singapore
Watch a Sample Lesson from Day 1:

💫Build the foundation for a relationship where you truly understand each other, grow together, and feel deeply connected.
➡️Start your 7-day challenge today for just SGD $25 — less than a date night, and far more valuable.